Monday, January 19, 2009

Distance

I read this from an e-mail. It is quite meaningful. I translate myself form mandarin to English. hehe. Read it. It is really nice but my English not good enough. sorry ya.

Why when we angry we will talk very loudly although the person you want to talk to is beside you, but you still want to talk very loud just like shouting?
Answer:
This is because when two persons are angry, the distance between their hearts is very far. In order to cover the distance so that they can listen to each other, they need to shout.
But by the time a person shout, it will make he/she getting more angry, the distance between their heart will getting more further. So, they will choose to shout louder and louder. This definitely will make problem more badly.

On the other hand, how they talk when the two people love one another?
Answer:
They not only won't shout but then they talk in a very soft voice. This is because their heart is being together just like no distance at all. When their love is getting deeper and stronger, they even can communicate without words. They can communicate by using eyes contact due to there is totally no distance between them.
So, when two people are quarrelling, don't let the distance in the heart getting further and don't talk the thing that will make the distance further also. The way to solve this problem is that let it for a few days. After a few days, the distance in their heart will get closer. Then both of you only talk nicely.
Happy always~~~

6 comments:

kokhong said...

Ei AFC 5 high com is lovers is it? Coz by just say "ah.. ah.." or "ei.. ei.." we all already know what each other need. Haha. Play too much already la.. All pattern saling mempengaruhi already..

c!-!ie\/\/ s!-!i said...

5 in 1 are persuing of zero distance friendship...haha...

-shi yun- said...

@kh haha..not lovers but our relationship really become stronger after the trip..hehe..pattern all pun same de..haha..and like to ss ourselves pun..NICE...

@cs hmm..nice to have this zero distance frienship..good..appreciate it...:P

Aenbiarshy said...

haha...sometimes we 5 even no need to talk lah~~ Like me, keep quiet....
COZ WE TALK IN OUR HEART~~

Like kokhong, he always understand what i want to do next step.
Like you, you know sushi need when she just "ah ah" ....

>_<

kokhong said...

I understand ChitPei too well.. That's why everyday I also can bully you. Coz I know what is ur next step. Hehe
Btw 2 weeks holiday from AFC is quite long.. Cant wait til after CNY d.. ^.^

-shi yun- said...

@cp u oso wan try to know wat kokhong going to do next..dun owaz let him bully u la..haha..or u willing owaz to let him bully??

@kh haha..time pass vy fast de..chu7 dinner ya..n angpow angpow..haha..